Being loyal in a relationship is the key to live a healthy, and a happy life. No matter how many obstacles life throws at you, if you have a spouse who believes in you, and your vision, you can’t fail. In many relationships, a third person tries to break a bond between a couple who love each other a lot.
Their only motto is to create misunderstandings between the couple, and the reason is very obvious – either revenge or some personal issues. To come out from these kinds of problems, it is important to have unbreakable trust in your partner so that it becomes impossible for the third person to interrupt.
Recently, Dr. Rachna Khanna Singh, who is by profession working as a Head of the Department in Holistic Medicine, Gurgaon, conducted a Questions & Answer session where she advised a lot of patients who are suffering from relationship problems.
In that session, she was asked a question:
I love my husband a lot! But he has a friend who started to talk to me casually, and now he has started flirting. It all started during the lockdown, and I feel guilty for being his entertainment package, and blocking him on time. When he started, I used to respond in a very casual way, but now this all is becoming awkward because now my husband’s friend sends me intimate messages, and I am having no idea how to confess this to my husband. If I tell this to anyone, they will raise fingers on my existence, and character, please help me?
To this, Dr. Rachna Khanna Singh answered:
From your data, it seems like your intention was surely not to give him wrong signals. Being a human, we are full of emotions, and it is very normal that you will feel guilty after all these awkward scenarios happened to you.
Looking at the positive side, if your bond with your husband is unbreakable, then there is no need to worry. All you have to do is, simply visit him, sit with him in a calm environment, and spill the truth from scratch to end. If you both together can fix this problem, then there is no need to discuss this with any other friends of yours.
If your husband is not supportive, and you know that it will create mess, then the next person is your close friend. The one whom you know won’t judge you, or tell these things to your husband. Friends are a natural remedy for many problems, hence you can go to them, and ask for help.
Hope these answers will help you to get rid of the problem you are facing. Stay positive, and be in touch. We hope, all these small matters won’t leave an impact on your happy married life.